Thursday, November 27, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving
Are you sick of me yet? I am sick of me. So I am giving you all an early Christmas present and officially ending my "thanks" as of today instead of the end of the month. :) Now it's back to posting my usual randomness.
There are so many blessings in my life and it's been good to focus on them.
1) The rain. We've had a solid day and a half of great rainfall. Low, cloudy skies, misty and scented... not that common here so I've tried to savor it (the run tomorrow morning will be beautiful!)
2) Love and forgiveness
3) Hugs (especially with those you love. They fit just right)
4) Music music music music music
5) Time
Bite Me
Glad some of you could make it! We missed those who couldn't but no worries... I will happily see it again.
My small review: By not expecting much, I was not disappointed much. :) Bella didn't bug me, I liked the actors and settings... and the Cullens house had me drooling, esp. Edwards room...those windows and trees! Take me now, cold creature. And he was delicious, just as he should be. Again, the fashion gets me: his big blue parka, the button shirts with rolled sleeves, the suit! All in all, not bad. It is what it is, right? A fun, teen series full of romance and flaws. If your too serious, you'll miss all the fun.
Soccer Break
They took some team pictures and here are mine of just Luke. Unfortunately, none of the team ones worked because Mr. drama here was all tears and whiney so he slumped his head down during the entire shoot. Then when it was all done, he skipped to me and asked if we were going to get ice cream. I'm telling you, he is probably the biggest 'girl' in the family. But look at him! He still melts my mommy heart.
The story of these three pictures is this:
Me: "Okay Luke... smile! One... two...."
Luke: " But Mooom, you need to say me something to say... like... cheeeeese!" (and then he'd give that really cheesy grin, squint his eyes and hold still... so funny)
Me: (thinking of a different, funny thing he can say so I can distract him to get a geniuine, non-cheese rehearsed smile) "Okay, Luke... how about we say.... Purple Dinosaur!" ...as I snap the photo of his serious face...
Luke: "But Mah-om, not purple dinosaur... I want to saycheeeese!" (cheese face again)
Mom: "But Luke I can't see your eyes.... how about... Chocolate Monkeys!" (I snap the serious face again)
Luke: "No Mooooom, no chocolate monkeys...."
We did this about three or four times until I got at least one candid 'normal' shot of him. Of course, none of them are really outstanding. We have obviously chosen the right sport for our child because he has no arms. I didn't do that well, did I. At least he is smiling.
Note those tiny feet and cletes! My chocolate Lucas!
Monday, November 24, 2008
Monday
Been an interesting day. I received a call from my Mom (and sister) that my Grandfather was admitted to the hospital yesterday. He passed away this afternoon. Both of my fathers parents have been actively involved in things, getting around and being busy but the past few years they have slowed down with age. They are so fun and witty, even still... but we all knew my Grandfather's time would probably come soon. As much as we'll miss him, I can't help but be happy for him now. He lived a wonderful accomplished and amazing life and how nice it was that he could go so peacefully. I grew up picking apples in their orchard, cherries from their trees, playing volleyball with cousins in the tall tree-enclosed back yard... his funny jokes, wisdom and advice. I feel honored to be his granddaughter and privileged to be a Patch.
My five for today:
1) My family. I love my parents and my siblings! I hope my own family can have similar relationships when they are grown.
2) I never, ever thought I would say this... so I am whispering it. Twins. There are moments, fleeting spots of glee along the way that do force me to accept that... hey, twins are pretty fun. Hearing them laugh in the slide today at the park was one of them. I couldn't help but giggle on the park bench.
3) Friends that know me well enough to help me out, especially because I'm not good at asking.
4) My voice. No, I still don't have it yet and I was way wrong- it's far from some hot Amy Winehouse... now I just sound like some honking duck.
5) Kind of goes with #5, but I am grateful for my sister. She is SO so so so funny and had me laughing so hard today giving me her Twilight review. She just 'gets' things and it's priceless. Big loves, sis. You are awesome.
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Sunday's Thanks
Hope you've all had a good weekend. Here are my five for today:
1) Band-aids
2) Deoderant (um... for others. I smell like roses all the time, yo)
3) GPS systems
4) Massages
5) My in-laws and their willingness to watch my kids for our quick trip. The kids had a great time and were a bit bummed we weren't gone longer. Awesome. Thanks Mimi & Bobba!
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Saturday
Today Scott and I rode in the "El Tour de Tucson". It was SOOOO fun! I am very new to events and wasn't sure how I would feel today as I have not been riding my bike much lately. But wow- I am hooked. Riding on the road with all these people, passing tons of them, trying to hold onto others.... it was a blast! The old San Francisco driving monster in me surfaced and I was in major maneuvering mode trying to zip around everyone. At one part we had to carry our bikes through a dry river bed area (in the pic). We got sand in our shoes and all gritty- great fun. Scott and I did separate distances, him 109 miles and me 66. We came with some friends of ours who did the same thing so Michelle was my riding buddy today. After those 45 or so miles I was starting to get tired. But I realized that the faster I kept going, the faster I would finish. And finish I did! I haven't checked my official results yet but I think I technically did it in about 4 hours. I am, of course, being generous because there was the long walk through the river bed and a rest stop or two for a quick bite, so I knocked off 20 minutes, but hey! Not bad for a rookie.... at least, I hope it's not too pathetic.
Now I have to take a minute here and give major props to many of my friends who have ridden MUCH longer than this MANY times a year. I was tired at the end of my wee 66 mile ride. I was sore, I wanted food, I was done. But Seriously? Lotoja!? 206 MILES??!? Sitting on a bike for 9+hours!?? I have such a humble respect for that pain management. That has to require super mental powers that I don't possess. Alison! Tiffany! Cori! Erica! Heather! And not to mention all the guys (who don't read this blog so it doesn't matter anyway) that do it every year.... just amazing. Today's ride is mostly flat, had great weather, etc.... but others have huge, huge climbs, big temperature differences and more competition. So I honor you on my silly, little blog tonight. You are inspirational!
So with my day mostly consumed with this race, my Thankfuls relate to these doings.
Today I was really, really grateful for:
1) Sunblock!
2) Sunglasses!
3) Safety- No wrecks, no flat tires
4) Smart cyclists- people who have experience and stay on the right side of the road, know where to look when passing, warn you of road debris, etc....
5) People with good attitudes. I don't care if you are waiting in line at Disneyland or at the bank.. I appreciate it when others are courteous and respectful. It is contagious.
6) Um... bikes again! They are infectiously happy toys. Everyone should have one. :)
Friday, November 21, 2008
Fridays Thankfuls
2) Vacuums
3) Air Travel
4) The beautiful southwest! The sky, the cactus and plants... So
organic and modern....
5) Macs (Apple!)
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Thursday's Greatfuls
So even though Greatful isn't really a compound word that way, I have made it so. Because I do that. That is Andrea language. And today I noticed some pretty great things:
1) Swivel chairs. Someday I will have a cool art studio and have desks everywhere, stations and what-not of current projects with glossy smooth floors which I will roll across to and fro...until then, I swivel in my art room. They are pretty great, swivel chairs....
2) Amazing and supportive friends. Tonights GND show went well but it wouldn't be anything near the success, or fun, it is without my talented friends who take the time to create/participate as well as the support from people who come. Even if it's just to say hello. I am grateful for the great people I know.
3) Drugs. C'mon now, nothing crazy. I've come down with a wee cold but thanks to some meds, the symptoms haven't been as bad. And Tylenol PM knocked me out last night. Hooray for modern medicine. Anyone want to call me? I will have a sexy Amy Winehouse voice for T-minus 27 hours.
4) Talents. I am constantly inspired by people around me and it's not just through art or creativity.
5) That November 20th finally came. :)
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Wednesday's Gratefuls
2) Razors
3) Luke's fun soccer coaches. They know it's for fun at this age and I appreciate how they've made this new experience something positive
4) Bottled water (and recycling...though I still feel guilty after all this metal bottle hype)
5) The seasons. The leaves are finally exhibiting the change of Fall everywhere and combined with the pleasant weather it's been beautiful.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Happy Faces
Tuesday's Gratefuls
2) Electricity. Don't need to expand much on this one. Pretty wonderful.
3) Q-tips
4) Soft, warm beds and sheets
5) Warm enough weather to drive with my windows down
Monday, November 17, 2008
Monday's Gratefuls
2) Recipes! Confession: I... can not cook. I am horrible at it. Let me clarify: I tried a few days ago to 'make' a salad containing ingredients that sounded good. Ohmygosh it was the most awful thing ever. I choked it down out of pride but really appreciated recipes that day. I enjoy cooking and baking and trying new things to keep this duty of mine interesting, but I am very grateful for good recipes. Like my Grandma's apple pie. Thanks, Grams!
3) Carpooling
4) Hair ties/barrettes/rubber bands or my poor girls would look like nomads. Well, so would I. So make it big. All hair products so we don't look like nomads.
5) Scott making dinner tonight... which he just threw together and it tasted great. Hmph.
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Double Thanks
Yesterday:
1) My bike
2) Washer/Dryer
3) My job. I know I am probably way too honest with some of my mothering frustrations but I would not want to be doing anything else. I am grateful that I can be here for my kids, help them with broken toys or forts, paint fingernails and teach them new things. I don't miss running a business or going to work and answering to someone. I am grateful to be able to do what I do and hopefully I am not damaging three, impressionable minds in the process. At least not too much.
4) Those folding chairs that you take to your kids soccer games. And soccer practices. And more games. Yeah. I am grateful for those.
5) Fandango!
Today:
1) Culinary convenience. If I want to make something, I can. If I need eggs, I can get them. Or milk, or fresh vegetables or bread... how blessed are we to not have to hesitate for hardly any food item or recipe at all?! (unless it's a Martha recipe- then I can't guarantee it- you may actually have to travel to acquire some saffron or truffles)
2) Punctuation! You ALL know how much I overuse it. Picture me in a pile of parenthesis and commas, tossing them gleefully in the air so they fall on my head....
3) Sight. Broad, I know, but vision is priceless. To see my children, the sky, the color of shadows, the eyes of those you love, architecture and color, everything....
4) Shoes. I don't mean for fun (though it's so very true that they are) but how functional they are. Again, it's the book I'm reading but these poor women would stand in freezing temps for hours on cold ground, do hard labor and walk for miles with hardly anything on their poor feet. I think I am very grateful for shoes.
5) Milk.
Friday, November 14, 2008
Some Double O? Yes, Please
---And as my sister has so acutely pointed out, we also have Edward for next weekend. I will quote her when I say, "I love November". :)
So on that note, here are my five for today:
1) Entertainment!
2) I'm thankful for temperate weather. This week has been so so so lovely out! Dad, it's weather that makes me think of you because I know you would appreciate! Nice cool high 70 temps and a soft breeze today. The kids and I enjoyed it while at the Springs Preserve and standing in that warm sun on a beautiful day is such a gift in November.
3) Relief Society. Seriously. I may sound a bit cheesy with this but I love it's purpose, support, service and sincerity. And the good people I meet through it.
4) Events to look forward to
5) Electric stand mixers (or... maybe I shouldn't be because they make baking way to easy for me)
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Thursday's Thankfuls
2) Ovens
3) Online ordering
4) Watching my kids discover. Today our painting turned into marbling and they loved it.
5) Jeans
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Wednesdays Five
2) Perspective
3) My wonderful, wonderful sis-in-law Jess. She called me today and is always so kind-hearted and selfless. If I can become near the heart of her, I will be honored enough.
4) Good friends - Always
5) Updated blogs (Like Rich! ....jk. Boy, am I funny)
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Today's High Fivers
2) The Playroom for the kids at the gym.
3) A successful movie with one mom (me) and five kids. Took the kids + two cousins to Madagascar II today (as they are out of school) with some friends and got through the entire thing with no one kicking chairs, talking loud, getting bored or having to use the bathroom (even Sadie! It's a Christmas miracle). Not a bad show, either. I enjoyed it and they even plugged an 8-track of Boston. A special moment to my heart. :)
4) Scott putting the kids to bed last night and tonight. Oh boy- I have really appreciated him doing that.
5) A good book.
Full Moon
know, for some of you having me post once a day this month is already
too much... I promise I won't abuse the "posting this instant" feature
that often...but aren't moonlit nights grand?
Even if I'm only on a simple grocery store run...I find joy in small
things. :)
Monday, November 10, 2008
Today's Gratefuls
2) Time with my kids today. For a good week or more the kids have been asking to go "climb the mountains" so I took them hiking today. We explored some new trails and climbed quite a bit around the rocks. It was fun to comment on thoughts and things we observed. There was a guy up there being life-lighted out of a nearby canyon, too- so we witnessed some helicopters very close. Quite an adventure! (and a good enforcing visual of my orders to be careful-yes, I milked it a little)
3) Public restrooms. Sure, they can be gross sometimes, but isn't it better than nothing? Sadie has the bladder the size of a teaspoon and always needs to go. And at the worst time. Like right NOW. She never gives me a preview, it's just a sudden gasp of horror as she is grabbing her pants and collapsing to the floor. Sheesh.
4) Soap
5) Babysitters. And specifically our two most devoted. They are like members of the family. Jeannine is like an aunt and is such a great woman. I trust her completely with the kids and she loves them to bits and it shows in how much they adore her back. I am grateful for her in our life and the way she cares for my children. And Jessica has grown up these past few years watching our kids nearly every weekend. She's so capable and fun and again, the kids love having her come. I think my kids actually like them more than me.
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Sunday's Five
2) Heat
3) Humor
4) Distractions. I think a lot and this offers reprieve be it movies, a good book, responsibilities, projects, focusing on others, heavy medication, eating my feelings...you get my drift.
5) My Church
More Kid Art
Luke is finally scribbling some identifiable things. :-)
I found this weird little man the other day and recognized his signature from the ghost tags in my earlier post. Notice the different colored fingers. Kind of funny.
And this was a dinosaur! Seriously, this is a big leap for him to make a an identifiable shape. Most kids are probably way ahead of this already so I felt it blog worthy. Plus, he does this thing lately where he likes to put a dot into every circle so I think this took him some time...
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Nov8th Gratefuls
2) Creativity & Inspiration
3) Service
4) People who use their car signal
5) Cold cereal
Friday, November 7, 2008
Today's Tops
2) Hot Water (esp. after a chilly bike ride this am)
3) My Mom. We talked today about art museums and music... I just love her.
4) My husband. He was reading my blog and said that I sound like a happy, single Mom. (oops!) Then he chastised me with a warning to not have that be what motivates a post about him. Too late. :) But I am grateful for him. He is an incredibly hard worker, dedicated father and very funny among many other great things. I would not be who I am today without him. (He also doesn't like me to get gushy, so lucky you- no goosh!)
5) iPods. Ah yes. You knew I would get to music stuff eventually and well, it won't be the last time. These, or any portable player device, are like little treats in the feast of life. I need it. I rely on it. Thanks to them I can think and dream, move and create all to sounds that inspire me. And dance in the dark when no one, I repeat, NO ONE can see. (At least I sure hope so)
Thursday, November 6, 2008
Today's Five
2) Refrigerators
3) A clean kitchen
4) Morning cuddles when the kids come and snuggle in bed with me first thing in the morning. It's not every day or the same one so it's always a nice surprise.
5) Fingernail clippers
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
More or Less
A) most of my clothes are lame and
B) I need some serious wardrobe updating.
The curse continues because, even though that may sound fun to 'need' to shop, I
C) don't really feel like filling my closet after all that work to thin it out and
D) as soon as I begin to look for something specific, it's not anywhere. It's like it never was.
So instead I browse online and
E) pretend
*How cool is that cuff? And these stove-pipe boots are a deep brown/plum color. Ugh. Fab.
Nov5 Grates
2) Technical clothing. It was cooold and windy today but the elements become obsolete in the face of my super powers Nike and Northface. I ran early this morning in the 40's and was comfy, wore a cozy sweater all day and stayed warm, wore my sub zero down jacket to Luke's soccer game (okay, so it was only in the 50's but I am a desert girl and standing there gets you chilly) and stayed warm. Hooray for technology and fabric experimentation.
3) Being a Mom. It can get really old stopping fights and picking up everyone's messes over and over and over and over again and emptying the dishwasher again and ... where was I going with this? Oh yeah, it's the berries. Thank goodness there are sweet sweet moments to remind you what it's all for. Especially after bath time and you're all snuggling reading books before bed. Awww. (now goooood night!)
4) Preschool. Oh boy am I ever thankful for that. (before you judge me, see #3)
5) Classical Music. Listened to some Symphonies today for a change. Magnifico! And I don't mean sleepy stuff, I mean beautiful, moving and spirited sound. A true artform. Can you believe people actually compose it? Amazing.
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Nov4 Grates
2) Voting. Our country is the shizzle. I hope you used your voice today.
3) Sunshine. Joined some friends at the park today and it was be-yootiful. Nice and cool but warm sun on your arms and shoulders. Ahhhh. I'm telling you my friends, the desert is not that bad, eh?
4) Water. It's so accessible to us. We are very, very blessed for this convenience. Don't waste it.
5) Telephones!
Halloween 2008
Warning: Lots of pics (just for you, extended fam).
We had a really fun Halloween this year. I liked that it fell on a Friday, leaving the rest of the weekend to recover. Nevada day is October 31st so the kids were out of school that day. The twins preschool teacher (the cool one that came as such a great zombie to the party) and a friend decided to throw a great kids Halloween party. I think it's something that they should do every year. They did a great job and the kids had so much fun. This is the essence of Halloween! The silly songs and running around in costumes playing games... I don't know why I enjoyed living through all the kids so much... okay, I do... it's a Halloween party. C'mon now.
They decorated cupcakes (think Sadie has enough candy corns on there?), played musical pumpkins and did a candy toss for prizes. Then they wrapped each other up as mummies with toilet paper which ended up being such great fun because they all got to rip out of their mummification to the Monster Mash and throw the TP everywhere during the song. There was seriously a musty air in the room from all the floating cotton fiber. We're just setting them up for some good teenage fun, right? Toilet paper is your frieeeeend. After that it was the old-school classic: eat the powdered donut from the string with no hands. The kids got some good laughs watching each other doing this, powder all over their faces. Luke became quite a ham when it was his turn. PS- Captain (Hook) America wears Rainbows, right? After all the fun we headed back home and chilled out for a little while. I started to make dinner as Scott's parents were joining us that night to trick or treat. Funny side story here- I found a new chili recipe to try that called for Merlot. Yes- I am a sinner. I bought some partly for the simple, vain reason of using a cool bottle to add to my shortage of decorations. So there I was, in my kitchen. The bottle and I staring down one another as I wondered how in the world to open the thing. But I'm a smart girl and figured it out (alright fine- thanks to Wiki. Yes! I'm that lame- I had to look it up!). The recipe ended up tasting well enough but I don't think I'll make it again. So see? I got a cool bottle out of it. So over the in-laws come, we eat our festive dinner and prepare to venture out.
This is the fun part. I got the yard all ready, put up some extra lights, stuck my ipod player out there with spooky tunes and it was perfect. The weather this whole day was so so so perfect. Nice low clouds but warm. We went around our neighborhood and the kids got so much candy half way through that we ended up heading home early. After visiting a while with Bobba & MJ, they headed home and we put the rascals to bed. It was a great Halloween day and hope you all had a fun one, too!
(Whew! All caught up now...)
Monday, November 3, 2008
Nov3 Grates
So here are mine for today:
1) Health (especially easy to appreciate after my Halloween candy diet of late)
2) Colors. The sunset tonight was very pretty. The color of the changing trees and plants... how does nature even know in the desert to warm up her tones come Fall? Pretty cool...
3) Purging. Cleansing the soul results in cleansing the closet and it feels gooooood. Though... now I need some skirts quite badly. Where can I find some sassy pencils? (Anna & Kj- advise!)
4) Hanging out with my kids today. I had a choice to: catch up on laundry and pick up lunch dishes OR join the twins and watch the new Tinkerbell movie (i.e. Sadie in digital form). Did I loose a few brain cells? perhaps. But Luke thought it was "so beyootiful" and Sadie got excited to see the happy ending...and that was more fun to watch than my laundry. Plus, they cuddle with me and I love that.
5) Early voting. Awww yeah. Did it last week.
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Nov2 Thanks
2) Having plenty of milk on a Sunday (yup- even guaranteed that with a late run to the store last night...)
3) Toothbrushes/Gum
4) Fresh Vegetables/Produce
5) Hot Water
The Day Before
Here we go as I recap the weekend...
Thursday was a fun pre-Halloween day and jam packed with activity. After getting E off to school complete with her costume that I made the night before (eeesh- you'll be the judge soon enough), the twins and I formed a fine assembly line and put together the treat bags for their pre-school Halloween party later that day. It would be a pretty uneventful thing but ended up entertaining me immensely, so now you have to see pics and hear why. Watching how the two of them executed the same thing so differently was great. I cut out a bunch of white ghosts and asked them to draw a face and write their name. Sadie went right for all the bright colors and started to do one ghost at a time, complete with an eligible name. Luke laid out all six of his ghosts in front of him and drew each face in parts... the eyes, the noses, then the mouths.... then he wrote his "name" (which I then translated in english). How cute is kid art!? I love it..her weird letters and his funny ghost faces.
After loading the car and some quick errands, the twins got dropped off for their party and I hurried to E's school for her big Halloween Trunk or Treat parade. I observed this last year and thought it would be fun to be part of it, but didn't bite until they sent a letter asking for a few more trunk volunteers. HeckyessIweeel. So I thought it would be fun to do some goofy mad scientist thing, hand the candy to the kids in a weird wig/goggles with long tongs, etc....Well, it was too warm of a day to wear a wig/goggles and the swarm of children negated my hopes for one-at-a-time candy distribution by tongs, but I donned the lab coat and my cool black gloves. The kids ended up really digging the juicy brains and worms, etc. I successfully grossed out lots of kids! Who knew striking fear and doubt into young hearts would feel so wonderful! I love this holiday. And how can hundreds of little kids in costumes not put a smile on your face. It was fun to see other friends kids and Elliet had a great time. After clean up, E and I picked up the twins, met Scott and visited the Springs Preserve Haunted Harvest. A beautiful night in a beautiful place was a fun end to the day. Now... Halloween day is next!
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Nov1 Thanks
Here goes for today:
1) We've had beautiful weather yesterday and today. Perfect temps, beautiful gray clouds and some rain tonight. I love the smell of new rain and windy weather like this. Love it.
2) Luke's big, loving hugs. Having those arms around my neck has healing power.
3) Getting all my Halloween decorations put away. Yes. ALL of it.
4) Satisfaction from a hard days work (see #3).
5) Genuine friendship